The Crucified Bridegroom – A Love Story from Eden to Eternity
- Pastor Jen Wilson
- May 20
- 4 min read
A Garden, a Bride, and a Broken Covenant
“This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh…”—Genesis 2:23
Series Introduction: A Golden Thread of Love and Covenant
This may be new to some and offensive to others, but I believe the Bible tells one story—woven through law and poetry, prophecy and parable. At its heart is a sacred vow: God desires covenant with His people.
This covenant is not cold contract. It is bridal. Fiery. Full of yearning, longing, and hope. From the beginning in Eden to the final wedding feast in Revelation, God reveals Himself not just as Creator or King, but as Bridegroom—one who binds Himself in love and remains faithful, even when the Bride is not.
This 12-part series traces that golden thread—of an unbreakable love story—from the Garden to Sinai, from exile to redemption, from water to wine, from cross to crown. It is a story of relentless pursuit and costly love. And it begins not with commandments, but with a wedding.
A Garden, a Bride, and a Broken Covenant
Before the first sin, there was the first love.
God formed man from the dust of the earth and breathed into him the breath of life. But something was missing—not in God, but in man. "It is not good for the man to be alone" (Genesis 2:18). So, God caused Adam to sleep and drew forth a bride from his side.
She wasn’t made from the earth like Adam, but from his rib—bone of his bone, flesh of his flesh—and in that moment, covenant entered creation. Not just biological union, but spiritual oneness. A vow written not in ink, but in image.
This garden wedding was more than the first marriage. It was a living parable. God, in His wisdom, was revealing the nature of His own desire: intimacy, unity, love. The covenant between Adam and Eve foreshadowed the greater covenant to come—between God and His people.
But love must be freely chosen. And soon, the serpent slithered in.
“Did God really say…?”The first seed of doubt was planted not in the mind, but in the heart. The woman took. The man followed. And the covenant was fractured.
Shame replaced innocence. Distance replaced intimacy. They sewed fig leaves and hid in fear. The garden, once a dwelling place of matrimonial joy, became a courtroom of consequence.
But even as He delivered judgment, God made a promise.
“I will put enmity between you and the woman… he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel.”—Genesis 3:15
This verse, known as the Protoevangelium, is the first whisper of redemption. The seed of the woman—born not of Adam’s will, but of divine design—would come to crush the serpent and restore what was lost. A new Adam. A new covenant. A new creation.
Even the garments God gave them—skin to cover their shame (Genesis 3:21)—hinted at what would be required: blood, sacrifice, substitution.
The exile from Eden was not the end. It was the beginning of a long and holy pursuit.
The Pattern Set in Eden
Eden established a pattern that echoes through all of Scripture:
A bride is created and called into covenant love.
One from among the many--exclusive, heart to heart, soul to soul
The bride turns away—believing the lie, doubting the love, wanting someone else.
God responds—not with abandonment, but with pursuit. And...a broken heart?
He promises restoration and prepares the way for return.
This is the golden thread.
It winds through the wilderness, where thunder and fire descend on Sinai—not just to give law, but to seal a marriage covenant between God and His people.
It pulses through the prophets, where the voice of God breaks with sorrow over a Bride who has gone astray—still wearing His ring, yet chasing other lovers.
It bursts forth in the Gospels, where Jesus is not only Rabbi or Redeemer, but Bridegroom—come to win back His wayward Beloved.
John’s Gospel sings with bridal echoes: A wedding feast in Cana, a Samaritan woman thirsting for the true love of a faithful husband, the Friend of the Bridegroom rejoicing at His voice, and the Bride price—paid not with gold, but with the Groom’s own blood.
And when His side is pierced—do you see it?—as Eve was drawn from Adam’s side, so now the New Congregation, the Bride, is redeemed from the side of Christ.
From the tomb rises not only a Man—but a Marriage restored. Love walks out of the grave, still bearing wounds, still calling her name.
And the thread does not stop there.
It stretches into Revelation, where the scroll is opened, the heavens resound, and a voice declares at last:“The wedding of the Lamb has come, and His Bride has made herself ready.”
💭 Reflection Questions
What part of your story reflects Eden’s brokenness—and God’s pursuit?
How does seeing God as a Bridegroom change the way you view the Old Testament?
Where have you experienced restoration in your relationship with God?
📖 Scriptures for Deeper Study
Genesis 2:18–25 – The creation of the Bride and the first covenant
Genesis 3:1–24 – The fall and the first promise of redemption
Ephesians 5:31–32 – Marriage as a mystery pointing to Christ and the Church
Romans 5:12–19 – Adam and Christ: the first and last Adam
Revelation 19:7–9 – The wedding of the Lamb
✨ Closing Thought
God’s love is not fragile. It is not shaken by betrayal or silenced by shame. From Eden’s broken covenant to Calvary’s bloody altar, He has never stopped loving, never stopped calling, never stopped preparing the Bride.
And the invitation still stands:Come. Be restored. The wedding is still on.

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